Dec23
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Dec19
Thoughtful Thursdays #44 Christmas Wish
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To you and your family I wish you health, wealth, wisdom and peace in this holiday season.
I wish that everywhere you plant your feet you are steady as a rock.
I wish that for every hand you hold you guide them in the right way.
I wish every time you put your arms around some one you made them feel safe
I wish for every kiss you gave you to feel the sparkle.
I wish for every tear you wipe away you gave comfort.
I wish you golden moments and clarity of mind.
I wish you everything that’s good and every happiness that life brings.
And I wish for your world to explode with joy.
From my heart to yours I wish you love.
I wish for you to have your hearts desire.
Merry Christmas
Dec2
Death
We had a death in our family over the weekend. It was expected because this person was elderly and sick.
I am reminded of the following:
Life is too short for Bulls**t.
But long enough to make things right. (Tweet that)
These words are easy to understand in our intellect but to take action on is nearly impossible. It takes a brave and courageous person to step out and up to making things right. Mostly it’s never done. We don’t want to go out of our comfort zone. We find reasons to resist and withhold ourselves from the world.
By the time a person is dying it’s too late usually because of fear, so setting things right is not on their mind. That is why we must make things right before death visits us.
Some simple ways to do that now is to:
Use kindness always.
Don’t argue with anyone.
Keep conversations uplifting.
Give hugs and kisses.
Talk.
Be honest.
Say I love you, even if its hard to say.
Send silent good wishes and pure feelings.
Ask yourself this: Do I want to die with regrets about what I did not say?
If you said no then make every effort to set what needs to be set right in your life. You won’t regret it.
XX OO
Nov17
Pleasure vs Joy
‘Pleasure is always derived from something outside you, whereas joy arises from within.’
Eckhart Tolle
Nov7
Thoughtful Thursdays #40 When things don’t work out.
Sometimes things just don’t go the way you want them to. I yell and fight, pushy, manipulate and scheme for circumstances to change to be what I want them to be. I try to force my own way into the situation and bring the issue to my own satisfactory conclusion.
The more I battle with what is happening the more I hurt inside. I am making the situation harder and harder for myself and others.
Then I had an epiphany. I was not paying attention to what was happening and thought I was the only one who was right therefore things had to go my way.
I decided to surrender, not in defeat but to let the situation play out by itself without my manipulation. As soon as I stopped struggling against resisting change I became calm. I do what is within my control and let go of everything else including the outcome.
Looks like I just got a big dose of wisdom.
Here’s what I learned and I hope it helps you too.
1. If you have done all you can, do no more.
2. Have patience and let things unravel the way its meant to.
3. The conclusion may not be what you want but it will be for you highest good.
4. Stop struggling with having things your own way.
5. Pick and choose your battles.
6. Step back and see is its really worth the effort.
7. If it’s hard for you to step back give yourself positive self talk.
It’s not always easy to allow the flow of life to move in its own direction. Just know that all will be well.
Happy surrender.
Oct30
Want not.
The next time you are waiting for anything, notice what you are wanting. This will be a source of your tension or impatience. All desire has fear built in – fear of not getting or losing, even before your desire is fulfilled.If you want to be free of fear and stress from your life, the secret is to want nothing, and then the magic happens. All that you need and more arrives in your life, at the right time, in the right way.
by: Thought For Today
Oct24
Thoughtful Thursdays # 38 Sorrow
Don’t give sorrow to anyone. That means you first. Don’t do anything that will cause you to feel regretful. Don’t do anything that will make someone else feel bad. Detach.
Don’t take sorrow from anyone. Put a large protective boundary between you and the sorrowful situation. This means not to absorb any negativity. Detach.
Keep yourself and others safe by putting a bead in your mouth if you can’t keep it shut. And walk away if need be to stop any onslaught of negativity. Detach.
End drama, don’t respond to it and it will disappear. Detach.
With that said.
Carry on with calmness today and every day.
Oct17
Two Things To Remember
There are two things to remember.
If it makes you happy, do it.
If it doesn’t then don’t.
from: inspire4better
So simple, so true.
Oct17
Thoughtful Thursdays # 37 Feelings
You will not break or die or disappear if you feel your feelings. There’s no need to run away or distract yourself with some substance or panic. Wait at minute. Just stop.
Feelings are scary. We don’t want to face them because we fear the depth of our magnificent selves. Deep in the well of our being is where the truth is.
That’s the reason you are feeling something. Your inner wisdom is telling you a truth. So why are you afraid?
Take a moment to just feel without judgement, without reacting, without running away. Let your feelings come out. Turn down the chatter in your mind, silence the inner critic that dishes out fear as if it were candy. The critic is not your friend when it comes to personal growth.
Your heart is calling you. Your feelings are calling you. You are a wonderful human being. Start acting the like it.
Don’t be so selfish. The world is waiting for your wonderfulness.
Go ahead love your self and others in your world. Say good things to yourself.
Give your self credit for getting as far as you have in this life. Your life may not have been perfect. So what if your life is not perfect. Welcome to the club because no one’s life is perfect.
Stop making the world wait for you. You are important.
Go ahead be happy, gorgeous, wonderful and a rock star.
Blessings to all.
Oct6
Affirmations # 28 Inner Child
I am worth caring for
I am truly talented
I release negatives from my life
Others do not alter my perceptions
I explore and overcome my fears
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As Louise Hay mentions in her book “Heart Thoughts” “Each one of us is always working with the three year old child within us.”
Take care of the inner child and it will take care of you.
Write each affirmation 10 times, say them many times during the day especially in the morning and bedtimes and in a mirror.
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