Your only really significant job is to know yourself so well that no one can move you.
Know yourself without: addictions and distractions, without numbing your feelings with any substance or activity, seek peace, move away from drama, put away social media daily for a break, go to therapy, do grief work, find groundedness.
Self discovery is a lifelong journey and will have you grow beyond your wildest imagination. Your life will shift and move organically to a life of happiness and contentment.
You are very important, so in your inner world, your mental health is important, your life is important.
‘This above all: to thine own self be true, And it must follow, as the night the day, Thou canst not then be false to any man.