I am a magnet for miracles.
Unknown and unexpected good is coming my way this day.
I change my consciousness, forgive those I need to forgive, and healing miracles occur.
Louise Hay – Heart Thoughts
We all need to heal something, the atmosphere is important too. Write these 10 times each say them many times during the day especially in the morning and bedtime. Mirror too.
Every cell in my body is healthy and fit and so am I.
Each and every day I am approaching my ideal weight.
I am _________ lbs.
I love myself unconditionally.
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We are two thirds through the Affirmation countdown for 30 days. I hope you are feeling much better. Write each 10 times and say them many times during the day especially in the morning and bedtime and in a mirror.
The Universe and all it’s powers are ending my poverty.
The Universe and all it’s powers are ending my isolation.
I always have whatever I need. The Universe takes very good care of me.
These affirmations are mine. You are welcome to change them to your preference. Write them 10 times each and repeat them many times during the day especially during the day and at bedtime, also in the mirror.
The child in me is very much alive. It is a happy, joyous and fun loving child.
I have forgotten the sad past. I live in the happy present and a still happier future awaits me.
The child in me and I are one. We love each other, care for each other, appreciate each other and will always belong to each other.
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Sometimes it’s painful dealing with our inner child but it’s a very important part of us. Write each one 10 times, say them many times during the day especially in the morning and bedtime, and in the mirror.
Most of the time we don’t listen to what is being said to us. All those good words are going to waste. I realized this when my daughter took issue with me about my dog. She said I am allowing him to get too heavy. The doctor wants him to lose about twenty pounds. As she spoke about my lack of concern for the dog she said something that made me listen. She said that when she speaks I don’t act on her advice and don’t take dog care seriously. What she was really saying was that I was not listening to her or taking her seriously.
It’s important that I listen to her because she is important to me. I don’t have to listen to anyone if I choose not to but those that are important know when I am not listening. And that hurts them.
This is the important lesson. Listen when those who love you say something because they are revealing their needs and concerns for themselves and you.
I’m listening Sam.
So keep those ears open and your dog on a diet.
As some of you know I have a very big dog. His name is Rocky and he is 133 pounds. This past Sunday night we were at the dog park. There were many dogs there including one that my dog occasionally plays with. The other dog (who is almost as big as mine) likes to dominate my dog. They end up playfully defending themselves until the other dog decided that he had enough and lopped off a quarter size piece of his right ear. Blood was streaming everywhere and I alerted the other dog owner. Initially they were apologetic and offer5ed to pay the vet. Then they wanted me to pay half. The husband and wife owners of this dog at this point started to get nasty and accused my dog of first starting a fight. They knew full well that their dog was the culprit. I threatened them by saying I would report their dog to animal control.
Since it was late on a Sunday we had to find an emergency vet. We found one and the other dog owners said they would pay the entire vet bill. They did not come with me to the vet and when the vet called for payment they refused to pay the sedative portion of the bill. They ended up paying $400 of the vet and I paid $146. These people were conniving, took advantage of me and are irresponsible dog owners.
Part of me wants to get even, the other part of me wants peace. I doubt it they will come to the part again if they see me and my dog there. I could call animal control and make a complaint or I could just let it go.
I have decided to let it go. Getting even is a useless attempt at trying to control the happiness or unhappiness of others and an attempt to relieve my frustration and anger.
I have the right to my frustration and anger. However, I have decided to leave it alone. because just knowing and believing “what goes around comes around” is enough for me. I believe if I act against them it will come back to me and I know their lying will come back to them.
My dog was well taken care of at the vet and very healthy in spite of losing part of his ear. He now has an interesting battle would, a conversation piece and I can go on with a clean conscious.
Can’t wait to get back to the park.
e.e. cummings said: “To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best day and night to make you like everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight and never stop fighting”.
When I read this it was almost too much to bear because it was true. It is a fundamental truth that no one talks about or even realizes till it’s almost too late. The truth is that society has set up rules so that if you don’t follow a particular like-minded tribe you will be lost and alone to the point of death. This mentality comes from the ancient survival mechanism in our brains that looks for safety. And it’s also has a clear undercurrent of power and control of a group under the guise of safety. I don’t know about you but I have been a loaner most of my life and I know that lost and empty feeling of not fitting in. I fooled myself for a long time with relationships, jobs, incredible ideas, trusting those I should not have and fabulous fashions but they all faded. The only thing left is me. Warts and all.
I have had sweeping changes and disappointments galore and guess what, I have survived. I still stand-alone and I enjoy being alone as much as I enjoy company.
Society has its own truths. I would never give up my truth to be myself. No matter what.
Be forewarned that acting true to yourself brings lots of jealousy and criticism. It’s a small price to pay for your own happiness. Be content and improve yourself regardless of what others think.
It will take a great deal of courage but you can do it. When there’s opposition, express it by doing something creative. Writing, painting, running what ever makes you happy.
Is this selfish, you may ask. No, because how can you be functional and productive when you have that feeling of uneasy boredom, are unhappy and living by habit?
No one can do your life the way you do so be proud of you and your life.
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For a change of perspective instead of writing about what is wrong with your life, write is about what is right
I’m not talking about using the words “grateful and forgiveness” these words are general, popular and not all its cracked up to be.
So here are 20 things to feel LUCKY about:
You are lucky if you woke up. I know it’s obvious but think of the alternative.
You are lucky if you are near children because they are wise if you listen to them.
You are luck because even if you are afraid you can face what you fear.
You are lucky because you can change anything you want to.
You are lucky because you can make your own luck.
You are lucky because it’s an honor to have any positive relationship.
You are lucky because you can delete any negative relationship.
You are lucky because you can find alternatives to get different results.
You are lucky because you can control any part of your life.
You are lucky because you can change direction.
You are lucky because you have your own path to walk.
You are lucky because are unique.
You are lucky because you can go with the flow of life.
You are lucky because bad things happen too and we learn from them.
You are lucky because you are human.
You are lucky because you can choose.
You are lucky because you can make a difference in someone’s life.
You are lucky because you are more powerful that you think you are.
You are lucky because you are smart.
You are lucky because you are wondrous.
Now go into your world with a feeling of real luck. The feeling of confidence and surety, luck will always be there. Just look for it.
I ran across the mention of a Tibetan yogini by the name of Machig Labdron. She lived in Tibet from 1055 CE to 1149 CE. You can Google her is you want to know more about her fascinating life. She is known for the following 5 sayings. To practice all of them covers just about every aspect of negativity that holds you back. If you practice them you will become brave and confident. Guaranteed.
1. Confess your hidden thoughts. (This is not the same as confessing to a priest. It is acknowledging what is bothering you. You can write or tell someone, it’s up to you).
2.Approach what you find repulsive. (For example, you see a dirty, homeless person and you are repulsed. Try looking at that person instead of ignoring them)
3.Help those you think you cannot help. (For example, speaking to someone who can’t help himself or herself like a struggling addict).
4.Anything you are attached to, give it back. (This means, instead of being so attached to something that it obstructs your life, let it go and trust that if its meant to stay it will).
5.Go to places that scare you. (That job interview, new places, eating alone in a restaurant, speaking up, the cemetery or any place that creeps you out. Not unsafe situations).
This practice is easier said than done most of the time. Because life has a way of keeping certain issues in front of you time and time again. Those issues will stay there until you face them. These sayings or method of eliminating stressful issues will work if you try them.
Happy hunting down those pesky stubborn issues that won’t go away and dissolving them.
July 4th, 2013
Today is the 237th day of Independence of the United States. The greatness of this country is one of hard work and persistence. This country is based on the freedom to be who you are and work as you wish. Yes the US is not perfect but neither is anything in this wonderful world we live in. There is constant change and challenges in governments and humankind. And that is the way it’s supposed to be.
You are free to be happy, to be who you want to be, it is not too late to change.
You are free to move around, turn things upside down, inside out and sideways.
You are free to made a plan, take a stand, hold a hand and swing.
So in celebration of US independence let’s join the party and feel free to dance to our own personal freedom.
Happy Independence.
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Informing Providers, Empowering Survivors
FEEL FREE - just sharing what moves through me
Slow down, stitch and enjoy the creative process
...making the business of marketing and licensing for creators understandable, achievable and affordable.
My art, writing and mental health stuff. Hope it helps.
The latest news on WordPress.com and the WordPress community.
WEE FOLK STUDIO
All things holly, jolly, and odd-ly...
A journey to healing from complex trauma.
NO SECRETS-NO SIDES | निर्गुह्य-निष्पक्ष | NIRGUHYA-NISPAKSA
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