Category Archives: Love

Oct2

Affirmations # 24 Wellbeing

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Life is Great.
I believe in myself.
Today is going to be a great day.
Anything is possible.
I am feeling really good.
I am deserving of all good things.

Video on Inspire4better.com positive affirmation.

Start you day strong. Write these affirmations 10 times each, say them many times during the day and at bedtime. Don’t forget the mirror.

Oct1

Love revisited.

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Love is not painful. If you are in a relationship and it hurts, get out of it now. The pain only gets worse.

Love is give and take and pleasure and trusting. If you don’t have at least a friendship, leave now.

Don’t waste time in a relationship that is unproductive and holds you back. Drop the drama.

Get back to true love of yourself or you will be useless in a new relationship.

Sep30

Affirmations #22 Sad & Lonely

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I feel the love of those who are not physically around me.
I take pleasure in my own solitude.
I am too big a gift to this world to feel self-pity and sadness.

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There will be times of sadness and loneliness. Here are a few affirmations to get you through.

Write each one 10 times. Say them many times during the day especially in the morning and bedtime and in a mirror.

Sep29

Affirmations #21 Self Esteem

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My high self esteem enables me to respect others and beget respect in turn.

I am free to make my own choices and decisions.

I am a unique and a very special person and worthy of respect from others.

My high self esteem allows me to accept compliments easily and also freely compliment others.

I accept others as they are and they in turn accept me as I am.

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If your self esteem is a bit damaged, replenish it with these affirmations. Write them 10 times each, say them many times during the day especially in the morning and bedtime, also in the mirror.

Sep28

Affirmations #20 Weight Loss

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Every cell in my body is healthy and fit and so am I.

Each and every day I am approaching my ideal weight.

I am _________ lbs.

I love myself unconditionally.

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We are two thirds through the Affirmation countdown for 30 days. I hope you are feeling much better. Write each 10 times and say them many times during the day especially in the morning and bedtime and in a mirror.

Sep26

Affirmations #18 Inner Child

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The child in me is very much alive. It is a happy, joyous and fun loving child.

I have forgotten the sad past. I live in the happy present and a still happier future awaits me.

The child in me and I are one. We love each other, care for each other, appreciate each other and will always belong to each other.

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Sometimes it’s painful dealing with our inner child but it’s a very important part of us. Write each one 10 times, say them many times during the day especially in the morning and bedtime, and in the mirror.

Sep23

Affirmations # 15

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When I breath, I inhale confidence and exhale timidity.

I love meeting strangers and approach them with boldness and enthusiasm.

I approve of myself and love myself deeply and completely.

I live in the present and am confident of the future.

My personality exudes confidence. I am bold and outgoing,

I am self-reliant, creative and persistent in whatever I do.

I am energetic and enthusiastic. Confidence is my second nature.

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Self confidence is the belief that you can do something. Write these 10 times each say them many times during the day especially in the morning and bedtime and in a mirror.

Sep15

Affirmations #7 Choice

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I always have a choice.
I have the power of choice.
I exercise my power of choice.

Write them 10 times, say them many times during the day and at bedtime. When you get a chance say them in front of a mirror.
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Aug22

Thoughtful Thursdays #30

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Everything starts with a thought.

Ever notice when you are upset with something your thinking is out of control. You find yourself spiraling down an abyss of negativity and can’t pull out of it. You feel angry, helpless, hopeless and unable to focus. The obsessive thinking starts and before you know it you are drained and unhappy.

There’s good news and only good news. These are only thoughts and thoughts can be changed. You are the power and authority in your world and at anytime you can change your mind.

I know you are not convinced because your ego is addicted to the drama of the situation.
Try this; based on the Queen of Affirmations philosophy of Ms. Louse Hay, her belief and mine, are that staying focused on what is positive will bring the best results.

Here are some affirmations. Write them 10 times each, your mind with fight you but you are the boss not your mind. In a short time you will calm down and feel better.

I open new doors to life.

I always have a choice.

I am worthy of all good.

I release all tension, I release all anger and I release all resistance.

I forgive all past experiences.

I love and accept myself.

These are just a few positive affirmations; there are tons of affirmations in books and on the Internet. Find some that resonate for you and use them.

So,

What Are You Thinking?

Aug19

How To Survive Getting Dumped

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Bam. Wait, what just happened? You find yourself being dumped and at first it’s impossible to believe. Your feelings are raw; it’s draining and painful. The tears don’t stop. The questions are endless. How did this happen? Whose fault is this? Did I miss something? Hold on a minute. Take a breath and read the following.

Relationships end for many reasons, it might be fear of intimacy, feeling vulnerable, don’t love the partner enough, using you for their own selfish reasons, or have other plans where you don’t fit into. There may be a need to step back, be objective and get clarity. Perhaps the relationship has lived out its usefulness.

The good news is that at some time or another everyone gets dumped. You will get over it. Here are a few practical steps to help you move on.

1. Don’t think you will never find love again – do you have a crystal ball?
2. Sit with and don’t react to the broken heart feelings – they will pass.
3. Talk it out with friends or a professional.
4. Even if you still like your ex do your best to cut all ties and move on otherwise you make a fool of yourself and continue to be used.
5. Insist on no more contact. That includes you, ex and the ex friends and family.
6. No stalking your ex in any way. Un-friend where necessary.
7. Give up being confused. Replace negative thoughts with positive ones.
8. Distract your obsessive thoughts with keeping busy, connecting with friends, cooking, working, writing, exercising, and conversations with your higher power.
9. Be very good to yourself. Do things you enjoy for a change.
10. Read or YouTube self-improvement and personal growth literature.
11. Watch funny movies, refuse to watch or read anything negative for a while. Especially those police shows that focus on extremely destructive relationships.
12. Find stuff to laugh at and lighten up. Stop all the seriousness.

It is definitely not the end of the world. Within a short time the painful feelings with start to go away. That’s guaranteed. You will move on and be free to find a terrific new relationship. Perhaps this time you will do the dumping. Just kidding.

So pick your self up, dust your self off and move up to better, healthier and supremely more satisfying relationships. Finally.