Always go with the choice
that acares you the most,
because that’s the one that is going to require
the most of you.
How many times have you slinked away from change or obstacle? How many times have you taken the easy way? How many times have you let opportunities for growing just slip away because you were scared?
Welcome to the club. Everyone does this and after a while it becomes a way of life.
Now is the time to think about your behavior and why you do the things you do. Why do I react the way I do. What lies do I believe about myself. What are my strengths, what are my less than stellar behaviors.
I know it feels overwhelming but one tiny, tiny step in looking at what you are doing with bring startling insights.
Go ahead try it. It will feel strange at first. Practice, practice, practice.
The past can’t define who you are today because what is past no longer exists. The actions of the past become part of the overall experience of a person’s life. Whether those experience are positive or negative are not right or wrong but lessons to be learned from. Some lessons are painful some are happy some are neutral.
At any time we can choose your own path. At any time you can see an action as one that will bring a positive result or a negative one. All it takes is a little detachment about making different decisions in the future.
Don’t buy into past beliefs that because you made a poor decision in the past you can’t make different decisions in the future. That’s the beauty and benefit of free will. You always have a choice. Just step back a moment and see what is going on, then decide.
Don’t pick on, berate put down or scare yourself with your thoughts.
Be kind and gentle to yourself. you are special and wonderful,
So believe it and act on it.