When we hate, criticize and judge other people it is a reflection of how unhappy and insecure we feel about ourselves.
When we criticize, hate or judge others it means we hate, criticize, judge ourselves.
Why? Because we believe we are not model size, rich, successful, pretty, overweight, underweight, cool, fill in the blank of where we believe we are lacking.
When we criticize, hate, judge others it gives a sense of assurance and validation that we are OK.
Why do we do that? We must get to the root of these beliefs and actions – to uncover and process our own self hatred and judgement.
We must get to feeling “good enough” about ourselves.
Feeling “good enough” about ourselves brings happiness and contentment and there is no room or desire to hate and judge others.
Get back to yourself.
Do the internal work necessary to be happy and content – you are worth it.