My definition of success is different from your definition of success.
Perhaps you want financial success, or health success or relationship success. What ever it is you want there is one truth that applies to all success.
You have to be willing to make effort in transformation.
Transforming your self means to change. Change is not easy. We naturally resist change even when it is good for us.
Success is guaranteed by steady transforming actions. Learning from each situation will slowly bring success. Taking risks will bring success. Getting out of your comfort zone will bring success.
The willingness to hold your own hand in personal transformation will bring success. Looking negativity in the eye will bring success.
Define your idea of success and bring up what needs to be transformed.
Be the creature you want to be. Go ahead, it won’t hurt. A little scary maybe but what you become will out weight any fear you have been holding.