Abraham, from the Bible, approached his day differently. Every time he met with aggression, every time he met with people that sought to do him harm. every time he ran up against a wall, he would say:
“I accept this situation for what it is, and instead of letting it victimize me, i will transform it into something positive”.
Excerpt from Karen Berg: Daily Consciousness:Finding Spirituality
Maybe we could do the same thing.
Try it.